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Tuesday, July 19, 2005

Sisters..

Thanks to Terri for sending me this email..

I have very close friends that I consider my sisters along my own sister Sandy.. To my two Mom, Sandy, Tina, Vicki, Terry, Tangie and Lauren, I want you to read this and know that I consider you all special to me in my life.. You all have roles in my life being my sisters. I love you and am very blessed to have you in my life.. Thank you for being there when I needed you and Thank you for being you! I know I will gain more sisters as I continue to grow years to come..

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A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.

"Don't forget your Sisters," she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. "They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them. And remember that "Sisters" also means your girlfriends, your daughters, and other women relatives, too. You'll need other women. Women always do.

" What a funny piece of advice! the young woman thought. Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup. Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile! But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another,she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life. After almost 50 yearsof living in this world, here is what I've learned:

Times passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Love waxes and wanes.
Hearts break.
Careers end.
Jobs come and go.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
But Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you.

A Sister is never farther away than needing her can reach.

When you have to walk that lonesome valley, and you have to walk it for yourself, your Sisters will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end. Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you. Or come in and carry you out. My mother, sister, sisters-in-law, and girlfriends bless my life! The world wouldn't be the same without them, and neither would I.

When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we still need each other.

Pass this on to the women who help make your life work.
Life is what we make it. Always has been, always will be.
Grandma Moses

4 Comments:

At 9:01 PM, July 19, 2005, Blogger Sandy said...

Hey sis..

I'm very very glad I have a sister like you who even sometimes can be such a meany to me ;) but still you are the one I look up to when I need your help on anything.. Thanks for being a great special sister to me

Love,
Sandy

 
At 5:45 PM, July 21, 2005, Blogger Vicki said...

Thank you Mary for including me as your sister. I have always thought of you as my sister and I love you dearly. I will always be there for you.

 
At 8:39 PM, July 21, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Me, too?

 
At 10:53 PM, July 21, 2005, Blogger *~ Li ~*~ La ~*~ Lo ~* said...

Including you Hedy! :) We are cousins as well as sisters! I am very glad that you and I are getting in touch more often now than we did growing up for few years when we weren't in touch.. Now we can have better relationship ;)!

Smiling, M-

 

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